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		<title>@ work</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 16:21:38 +0000</pubDate>
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I am providing home based facial services from home now. so let me know if you want to do facial, just give me a call if you reside in the northeast area of SG.
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<p>I am providing home based facial services from home now. so let me know if you want to do facial, just give me a call if you reside in the northeast area of SG.</p>
<p>Otherwise if you have proms, dinner &amp; dance, weddings coming up and require makeup services, call me for a quote and I will be more than willing to help.</p>
<p>Will be starting Vietnamese lessons soon. 10 lessons in 10 weeks. Maybe even a business trip to Vietnam.</p>
<p>Other than that, colleagues are great people to go to gym with after work. especially when it is a free trial.</p>
<p>Tonight&#8217;s yogilates is good exercise. I found new muscles in my shoulders. hee</p>
<p>Too used to twittering, my blog entry is starting to look like one.</p>
<p>Hope I have more time to blog soon. Do check in more often!</p>
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		<title>Story of the Pig-Rabbit</title>
		<link>http://happidipity.wordpress.com/2009/11/06/story-of-the-pig-rabbit/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 06:29:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This soft toy will definitely be very popular in the future



ah what can I say except I love this show! Looking forward to every Wednesday and Thursday.
screen captures from http://www.dramabeans.com/2009/11/youre-beautiful-episode-10/#more-11918 
I posted the latest episode sypnosis for those who are interested to find out more about the show I am watching. You can go through the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=happidipity.wordpress.com&blog=2678516&post=827&subd=happidipity&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>This soft toy will definitely be very popular in the future</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-824" title="minam9-00187" src="http://happidipity.files.wordpress.com/2009/11/minam9-00187.jpg?w=600&#038;h=330" alt="minam9-00187" width="600" height="330" /></p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-825" title="minam9-00195" src="http://happidipity.files.wordpress.com/2009/11/minam9-00195.jpg?w=600&#038;h=330" alt="minam9-00195" width="600" height="330" /></p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-826" title="minam9-00205" src="http://happidipity.files.wordpress.com/2009/11/minam9-00205.jpg?w=600&#038;h=330" alt="minam9-00205" width="600" height="330" /></p>
<p>ah what can I say except I love this show! Looking forward to every Wednesday and Thursday.</p>
<p>screen captures from <a href="http://www.dramabeans.com/2009/11/youre-beautiful-episode-10/#more-11918">http://www.dramabeans.com/2009/11/youre-beautiful-episode-10/#more-11918</a> </p>
<p>I posted the latest episode sypnosis for those who are interested to find out more about the show I am watching. You can go through the past episode sypnosis to understand the show better</p>
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		<title>This show will make you smile</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 06:30:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>leyalee</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Can&#8217;t stop laughing as I watched this latest korean drama, which is a mix between Coffee Prince, Boys over Flowers and Skip Beat.

In short, story is about an idol boyband which was initally made up by 3 members and has a latest addition of a female crossdresser who was formally a nun. Sounds silly? It [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=happidipity.wordpress.com&blog=2678516&post=820&subd=happidipity&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Can&#8217;t stop laughing as I watched this latest korean drama, which is a mix between Coffee Prince, Boys over Flowers and Skip Beat.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-819" title="youarebeautiful2" src="http://happidipity.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/youarebeautiful2.jpg?w=301&#038;h=426" alt="youarebeautiful2" width="301" height="426" /></p>
<p>In short, story is about an idol boyband which was initally made up by 3 members and has a latest addition of a female crossdresser who was formally a nun. Sounds silly? It is! but not idiotic or stupid. This drama has plenty of eye candy (Jung Geun-Seok!) and when Park Shin Hye (the female in the band) speaks in Korean, she melts my heart because it doesn&#8217;t sound like the usual rough way that Koreans speak in, instead very gentle and demure (probably due to the fact she used to be a nun)</p>
<p>Watch the trailer below! you&#8217;ll be sure to be hooked.</p>
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		<title>Summer in HongKong</title>
		<link>http://happidipity.wordpress.com/2009/09/28/summer-in-hongkong/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 16:07:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>leyalee</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[HK in the summer feels as humid as Singapore, crowded and sweaty. But it&#8217;s also a very vibrant and upbeat city where people stay up late, drink and be merry. Had an interesting time in HK bonding with my new and overseas colleagues over food, drinks and endless constructive meeting.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>HK in the summer feels as humid as Singapore, crowded and sweaty. But it&#8217;s also a very vibrant and upbeat city where people stay up late, drink and be merry. Had an interesting time in HK bonding with my new and overseas colleagues over food, drinks and endless constructive meeting.</p>
<p>Highlights of the trip: the food, the drinks, the people from all over the world, the lovely Lanson Place which we stayed in, the various mode of transport in HK and most importantly, the shopping! only at sale with a limited budget. but nonetheless I got myself some great buys like my red trenchcoat, and pink sneakers!</p>
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<p>the streets of Causeway Bay, just like the movies. And the tram!</p>
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<p>On the way to Tsim Sha Tsui on a ferry!</p>
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<p>Delicious Dim Sum breakfast</p>
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<p>On the expensive streets of Causeway Bay, where the Miu Miu, Chanel, Hermes and Mercedes Benz showroom are located.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-795" title="DSC00377" src="http://happidipity.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/dsc00377.jpg?w=225&#038;h=300" alt="DSC00377" width="225" height="300" /></p>
<p>at a traditional HK streetside eatery</p>
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<p>Yummy mango dessert. love the transparent utensils.</p>
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<p>My super nice Lanson Place room. I want a studio just like this.</p>
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<p>my thai colleague and i after a tiring night of shopping. at a super crowded dessert store famous for mango desserts</p>
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<p>soon to come, my fabulous Perth trip hosted by the wonderful Persis and Cassandra!</p>
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		<title>Change with me</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Aug 2009 06:52:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If the world don&#8217;t change, I will.
Will be blogging about National Day celebration, Len&#8217;s birthday bash and HK trip soon.
Till then I have my work commitments to complete. emails, reports, lists. argh
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>If the world don&#8217;t change, I will.</p>
<p>Will be blogging about National Day celebration, Len&#8217;s birthday bash and HK trip soon.</p>
<p>Till then I have my work commitments to complete. emails, reports, lists. argh</p>
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		<title>I Love Travel</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2009 06:23:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Going to be in HK from 11 &#8211; 15 Aug. It&#8217;s Summer sale there and typhoon season.
Any tips on to do, to see places?
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Going to be in HK from 11 &#8211; 15 Aug. It&#8217;s Summer sale there and typhoon season.</p>
<p>Any tips on to do, to see places?</p>
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		<title>Recognise your negative thinking patterns</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2009 02:34:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you automatically think &#8220;I&#8217;m useless” if you do something wrong, or assume that if your neighbour ignores you, she must hate you?
These distorted thoughts can really take their toll on your self-esteem. Below is a list of 10 negative ways of thinking, if you can recognise yourself having these thoughts then you can begin [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=happidipity.wordpress.com&blog=2678516&post=782&subd=happidipity&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Do you automatically think &#8220;I&#8217;m useless” if you do something wrong, or assume that if your neighbour ignores you, she must hate you?</p>
<p>These distorted thoughts can really take their toll on your self-esteem. Below is a list of 10 negative ways of thinking, if you can recognise yourself having these thoughts then you can begin the process of rationalising them.</p>
<p>1. Personalisation</p>
<p>Even though it’s largely out of your control you blame yourself for a negative event that occurred &#8216;If I had taken more care, I never would have lost my mobile phone.&#8217;</p>
<p>2. Filtering</p>
<p>One negative happening, such as a rude comment made to you during an otherwise enjoyable evening changes your whole perspective on the evening and puts you on a downer</p>
<p>3. Rejecting praise</p>
<p>Closing off the positive such as a compliment, affectionate gesture or praise goes unnoticed, ignored or deflected; you might reply with, &#8216;It’s no big deal.&#8217;</p>
<p>4. Drawing false conclusions</p>
<p>You draw negative conclusions without getting your facts straight. You try and predict the future or guess what someone else is feeling &#8216;My sister is upset, she must be angry with me.&#8217;</p>
<p>5. Negative reasoning</p>
<p>You are sure that your negative opinion of a situation reflects reality. Such as: &#8216;My husband drops his socks on the floor just to aggravate me.&#8217;</p>
<p>6. Using the word &#8217;should&#8217; in your vocabulary</p>
<p>You adhere to being a perfectionist and following certain rules about what you &#8217;should&#8217; be doing. You feel useless and guilty when you can’t stick to your rules.</p>
<p>7. Overgeneralisation</p>
<p>One negative event, such as an insult from your partner or an argument with someone causes you to exaggerate the situation. For example, you might think, &#8216;She’s always cold&#8217; or &#8216;You can’t trust anyone.&#8217;</p>
<p>8. Labelling</p>
<p>Rather than learning from a mistake and using it as an experience that has helped you grow as a person, you label yourself negatively: &#8216;I’m a failure.&#8217; You do the same to other people too: &#8216;She’s so controlling.&#8217;</p>
<p>9. Magnification or minimisation</p>
<p>You wind yourself up so that molehill problems become mountains &#8216;I know I won’t be any good at it.&#8217; Or you minimize anything that might make you feel good, such as appreciation for a kind act you did or the recognition that other people have flaws, too.</p>
<p>10. All or nothing</p>
<p>If you don’t perform with perfection, then you consider yourself a complete failure.</p>
<p>Negative thoughts don’t have to be a way of life, you can &#8216;unlearn&#8217; self-defeating ways of thinking that pave the way toward mood disorders.</p>
<p>Writing things down on paper really helps. Take some time out of your day to write down a negative event, notice your thought pattern from the list above and look at then write down a different perspective with a more rational and optimistic response.</p>
<p>Just the act of writing gives you back some power and control over the situation and once you have recognised your negative thought pattern you are on the way to teaching yourself new patterns, positive ones!</p>
<p>By Izzie Knolles<br />
<em>*Taken from Facebook notes</em></p>
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		<title>Romance and the City</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 17:31:04 +0000</pubDate>
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Look at the pretty editorial spread from Vogue for Sex and the City the movie in dernier cri.
Long overdue, but to me it felt like SATC just ended its run yesterday.
I love the city.
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<p>Look at the pretty editorial spread from Vogue for Sex and the City the movie in <a href="http://onceinvogue.wordpress.com/">dernier cri</a>.</p>
<p>Long overdue, but to me it felt like SATC just ended its run yesterday.</p>
<p>I love the city.</p>
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		<title>What&#8217;s in my fridge</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 15:41:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The fridge at home is really not mine, it&#8217;s my parents&#8217;. If I had my way, my fridge will be full of the following:
1) Chocolates. I would love to have any kind of chocolate in my fridge. Lindt, M&#38;Ms, kit kat, Godiva, Van Houten
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>The fridge at home is really not mine, it&#8217;s my parents&#8217;. If I had my way, my fridge will be full of the following:</p>
<p>1) Chocolates. I would love to have any kind of chocolate in my fridge. Lindt, M&amp;Ms, kit kat, Godiva, Van Houten</p>
<p>2) Fruits. I like colours and I love fruits in different colours like green apples, strawberries, longans, oranges, lemons, grapes, etc etc.</p>
<p>3) Dried mushrooms and scallops. I am no cook, but I would prefer to throw stuff into my instant noodles, soup and porridge. Just for more texture.</p>
<p>4) Prawns and sotong balls. Random I know but they go well with instant noodles and plain porridge. Oh I have a thing for fried sotong balls! especially those my mum fried.</p>
<p>5) Juices, Yakult, soya bean milk and Meiji milk. I love fresh juices, if only I can have it everyday. Yakult is sweet and good for the intestines. Soya bean milk rich in protein good for body. And I love Meiji milk to make milkshakes with my Positrim.</p>
<p>6) Wine and Beer. Drinking is starting to grow on me. I like Riesling and sparkling shiraz. I also enjoy an occasional beer on extremely warm days.</p>
<p>Maybe one day when I learn to cook more dishes, I can start stocking up on vegetables and meat. And any more I am going to sound like an Ah-So.</p>
<p>Time to raid my fridge for some green apple!</p>
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		<title>Movies Mayhem</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 16:01:01 +0000</pubDate>
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My Sister&#8217;s Keeper. Have not read the book but it seems to be a moving tale. Release Date in SG unknown.

(500) Days of Summer. It&#8217;s not a love story. It&#8217;s a story about love. Opens 15 Oct in SG

Funny People. Adam Sandler rocks! Opens 24 Sep in SG

The Ugly Truth between men and women. Starring [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=happidipity.wordpress.com&blog=2678516&post=762&subd=happidipity&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p>My Sister&#8217;s Keeper. Have not read the book but it seems to be a moving tale. Release Date in SG unknown.</p>
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<p>(500) Days of Summer. It&#8217;s not a love story. It&#8217;s a story about love. Opens 15 Oct in SG</p>
<p><span style="text-align:center; display: block;"><a href="http://happidipity.wordpress.com/2009/07/07/movies-mayhem/"><img src="http://img.youtube.com/vi/24VVnvrjI8w/2.jpg" alt="" /></a></span></p>
<p>Funny People. Adam Sandler rocks! Opens 24 Sep in SG</p>
<p><span style="text-align:center; display: block;"><a href="http://happidipity.wordpress.com/2009/07/07/movies-mayhem/"><img src="http://img.youtube.com/vi/8-wMe9vxkWI/2.jpg" alt="" /></a></span></p>
<p>The Ugly Truth between men and women. Starring Katherine Heigl from Grey&#8217;s Anatomy. Opens 17 Sep in SG</p>
<p><span style="text-align:center; display: block;"><a href="http://happidipity.wordpress.com/2009/07/07/movies-mayhem/"><img src="http://img.youtube.com/vi/KsGuzZqVeQU/2.jpg" alt="" /></a></span></p>
<p>The Proposal. Face of Creme LX, Sandra Bullock is hawt stuff. Opens 20 Aug in SG.</p>
<p>p.s. The Time Traveller&#8217;s Wife will be released in SG on 17 Sep.</p>
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